Completing the list of life goals is a piece of cake! Exclusive secrets that will last a lifetime

Completing the list of life goals is a piece of cake! Exclusive secrets that will last a lifetime

Accomplishing life goals is a piece of cake! An exclusive secret that will be used for a lifetime / image from pexels
Completing the list of life goals is a piece of cake! Exclusive secrets that will last a lifetime / Figure: pexels

life goals看似遙不可及,Want to finish but always can't do it? Hundreds of ways to accomplish goals,但究竟哪個是真正有效的呢?

買車、Buy a house、Travel around the world、marry、Give birth、elderly life…,Want to do a lot,But what can I do now? I will tell you today,How to rely on the "three questions",讓自己順利達成人生目標!!

每個人都有幾個人生目標,But where to start and finish,Is the most difficult thing。How do I know what I can do now? First of all,You have to clarify the "three questions"。after that,"How to start?Will be solved。

三個問題 幫你完成規劃人生目標清單

1.我想要什麼?

列出人生目標清單,Focus on firepower to achieve dreams。
這份人生目標清單項目不用太多,Because each stage will have different dreams,And too many goals are unrealistic,Unable to achieve。So list up to five goals,And how long do I hope to complete。Regardless of physiological needs、Relationships,Or career planning、Future expectations,Can be regarded as a goal。E.g:I want to buy a house in ten years。

2.什麼限制了我?

釐清現狀,Consider your identity,And think about family、jobs、What restricts me from socioeconomic status。
Dreaming is the most beautiful,But we must also bow to reality。But don't worry,Bowing your head now doesn't mean you can't lift your head。To figure out the current situation is not to give up your dreams,But to make yourself towards the right goal,Move faster。Ask yourself what are the possible reasons that prevent me from achieving my goals in life? And write them down one by one。E.g:I don't have enough deposit。

3.我該如何打破限制?

找到現在可以做的事,And proceed to。
As long as I really want to do it,Anything can be done! (Excluding things that violate ethics)。But everything is hard to start,How to start is the biggest test。因此,"Planning" is a very important part。Set life goals、After clarifying the reality,I also know what difficulties I encountered,You can start planning,Turn big problems into small problems,Small problems become okay。E.g:Start saving money tomorrow,Cost reduction by two thousand yuan a month。

Remarks:When you reach the third step,The task to be completed may be a little difficult,At this time, continue to disassemble the problem into smaller ones、Easier problems。You can also make the task more specific、More detailed completion time and completion method。E.g:Buy two less clothes a month。

三個問題 幫你完成人生規劃/圖片來自pexels
三個問題 幫你完成人生規劃 / Figure: pexels

用對方法 人生目標清單中的買房也不成問題

在「規劃」時,You must keep asking yourself the above three questions:"What do I want?"、"What restricts me?"、"How can I break the restrictions?"。In addition,You can also ask the same set of questions repeatedly,Make "planning" more perfect。E.g:From the original "I want to buy a house in ten years,But i don't have enough deposit,So I should save money。"Extends to "I want to reduce spending by 2,000 yuan per month,But the desire to shop makes me spend too much money,So I will buy two less clothes in a month。"The question is at the end,Which means "buy two less clothes a month",Is already an easy goal。Start to complete life goals from now on,Will be much easier。

Now that the planning method is available,Then strike while the iron is hot,Pick up the paper and pen,Immediately draw up a blueprint of your own life goal! As for how to describe it? We can use mind maps to analyze this list of life goals。Examples are as follows:

用對方法 買房不是問題/圖
用對方法 買房不是問題 / Figure

Starting from the big goal (buying a house within ten years),Find out that insufficient income and deposits are the main obstacles。因此,In the next branch, it can be presented in two points,And indicate the main reasons for insufficient income and deposits。Keep exploring,就能釐清目前的我所能做的事,Reading management books、Take communication classes and buy two less clothes a month。

實務為主 心法為輔

相信不少人都看過或聽過《秘密》這本書 — 只要有人生目標,And want to achieve the goal,You will move towards the goal。This is actually very simple,When you want to accomplish something,Will naturally start planning。gradually,Shallow consciousness will tell itself that it must be done。There is a 34-year-old woman in Japan, Saki,Relying on 15 years of frugality,Bought three houses。The mental method she uses is to set the goal of life on the notepad:I will buy a second house at the age of 29;And bought the third building at the age of 34。In this way,Dreams will naturally be closer to reality,Will be completed along the way。(Extended reading:省吃儉用連買三棟房!日本27歲女孩立志購屋 節目6年後採訪已經是包租婆

用對心法 完成人生目標 /圖片來自pexels
用對心法 完成人生目標 / Figure: pexels

人生目標清單 從現在開始完成!

綜合以上幾點,Can draw a conclusion:完成人生目標的方法就是向自己立下誓約(人生大目標),Then kept asking myself "What do I want?"、"What restricts me?"、"How can I break the restrictions?",And start planning right away。It is not difficult to accomplish life goals,The difficulty is whether you are willing to devote yourself to planning for the goal,And work hard for it。At last,Still an old saying,As long as you have the heart,It must be done! Go forward bravely toward your dream!

Further reading:

如何讓自己快樂? 經科學證實 5個快樂的方法

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