Vague language is only trying to avoid bear responsibility! Want to achieve the dream，You must first set up a "precise" objectives。
The list of life goals seems out of reach，Want to finish but always can't do it? Hundreds of ways to accomplish goals，But which one is really effective? Buy a car、Buy a house、Travel around the world、marry、Give birth、elderly life…，Want to do a lot，But what can I do now? I will tell you today，How to rely on the "three questions"，Let yourself reach your life goals smoothly! ! Everyone has several goals in life，But where to start and finish，Is the most difficult thing。How do I know what I can do now? First of all，You have to clarify the "three questions"。after that，"How to start?Will be solved。 Three questions to help you complete the list of planning life goals 1. What do I want? Make a list of life goals，Focus on firepower to achieve dreams。There are not too many items in this life goal list，Because each stage will have different dreams，And too many goals are unrealistic，Unable to achieve。So list up to five goals，And how long do I hope to complete。Regardless of physiological needs、Relationships，Or career planning、Future expectations，Can be regarded as a goal。E.g：I want to buy a house in ten years。 2.What restricts me? Clarify the status quo，Consider your identity，And think about family、jobs、What restricts me from socioeconomic status。Dreaming is the most beautiful，But we must also bow to reality。But don't worry，Bowing your head now doesn't mean you can't lift your head。To figure out the current situation is not to give up your dreams，But to make yourself towards the right goal，Move faster。Ask yourself what are the possible reasons that prevent me from achieving my goals in life? And write them down one by one。E.g：I don't have enough deposit。 3.How can I break the restrictions? Find what you can do now，And proceed to。As long as I really want to do it，Anything can be done! (Excluding things that violate ethics)。But everything is hard to start，How to start is the biggest test。therefore，"Planning" is a very important part。Set life goals、After clarifying the reality，I also know what difficulties I encountered，You can start planning，Turn big problems into small problems，Small problems become okay。E.g：Start saving money tomorrow，Cost reduction by two thousand yuan a month。 Remarks：When you reach the third step，The task to be completed may be a little difficult，At this time, continue to disassemble the problem into smaller ones、Easier problems。You can also make the task more specific、More detailed completion time and completion method。E.g：Buy two less clothes a month。 Using the right method, buying a house in the list of life goals is not a problem.，You must keep asking yourself the above three questions："What do I want?"、"What restricts me?"、"How can I break the restrictions?"。In addition，You can also ask the same set of questions repeatedly，Make "planning" more perfect。E.g：From the original "I want to buy a house in ten years，But i don't have enough deposit，So I should save money。"Extends to "I want to reduce spending by 2,000 yuan per month，But the desire to shop makes me spend too much money，So I will buy two less clothes in a month。"The question is at the end，Which means "buy two less clothes a month"，Is already an easy goal。Start to complete life goals from now on，Will be much easier。 Now that the planning method is available，Then strike while the iron is hot，Pick up the paper and pen，Immediately draw up a blueprint of your own life goal! As for how to describe it? We can use mind maps to analyze this list of life goals。Examples are as follows： Starting from the big goal (buying a house within ten years)，Find out that insufficient income and deposits are the main obstacles。therefore，In the next branch, it can be presented in two points，And indicate the main reasons for insufficient income and deposits。Keep exploring，Can clarify what I can do，Reading management books、Take communication classes and buy two less clothes a month。 Practice is the main thing and the mind is the second. I believe many people have read or heard the book "Secret"-as long as there is a life goal，And want to achieve the goal，You will move towards the goal。This is actually very simple，When you want to accomplish something，Will naturally start planning。gradually，Shallow consciousness will tell itself that it must be done。There is a 34-year-old woman in Japan, Saki，Relying on 15 years of frugality，Bought three houses。The mental method she uses is to set the goal of life on the notepad：I will buy a second house at the age of 29；And bought the third building at the age of 34。In this way，Dreams will naturally be closer to reality，Will be completed along the way。(Extended reading：Save money and buy three houses! A 27-year-old girl in Japan who is determined to buy a house, 6 years after the interview is already a charter wife) Life goals list Complete now! Combining the above points，Can draw a conclusion：The way to accomplish life goals is to make an oath to yourself (life goals)，Then kept asking myself "What do I want?"、"What restricts me?"、"How can I break the restrictions?"，And start planning right away。It is not difficult to accomplish life goals，The difficulty is whether you are willing to devote yourself to planning for the goal，And work hard for it。At last，Still an old saying，As long as you have the heart，It must be done! Go forward bravely toward your dream!
Slash youth is a hot topic of discussion recently，The word "slash" comes from the English Slash，Refers to a diverse lifestyle with multiple occupations and identities。These ethnic groups usually introduce themselves with "slashes"，for example，I am a designer/engineer/blogger/speaker，It can also be said to be a worker with multiple professional income。 Many people yearn to be a slash youth，You can combine your major and interests，Can not be tied to a single nature of work，And can learn and grow all the time，Explore more possibilities for yourself，Even through different professional services，Increase more income。 This way of life looks very attractive，Then，How to become a slash youth? How to train yourself to have multiple professional skills，And has the ability to "monetize"? Here are 5 ways to become a diagonal youth： Become Slash Youth Code One、Out of the comfort zone，Want to keep the curiosity diverse professionals，Can't work behind closed doors，Must get out of the environment one is familiar with，Through various social media、exhibition、Online and offline activities such as seminars，Understand majors and topics in different fields，Learning through communication，Develop second or third expertise。 on the other hand，Modern society is turning too fast，The work of a single major in the past has become increasingly worthless，Even easily replaced by robots，therefore，The development of multiple skills has become one of the "necessary" abilities。The only constant truth is "change"，Keep curiosity at all times，Continuous learning and growth，So as not to be overwhelmed by the wave of "change"。 Youth Code II became slash、Grasp work resources，The new service does not exclude a lot of people want to be a slash youth，But buried in busy work every day，Exhausted after get off work，No effort to learn new things。in fact，In addition to using the time after get off work to study，Can cultivate different expertise at work，Seize every job opportunity in a new business，Learn different job skills from it，Use work to develop your own diverse abilities。 Code three young people became slash、Specialization is defined from the beginning of the first professional slash，Not constant part-time jobs，But from a profession，And extend more expertise from it。E.g，A visual designer in the process of working，Need to understand the program，So learn to write programs。After deep plowing in two fields，Have many ideas and thoughts，And become a blogger in the professional field，Even start a speech，Share experience with more people。 From a designer，And become an engineer、Blogger、speecher，This series of "slash" journeys，Is based on a professional start，on the contrary，Without professional support，This road is difficult to follow。 Code of four young people to become slash、Find your strengths，What is your personal brand management expertise is? Would like to specialize in what areas? What job learning opportunities? Identify their strengths，Use the resources around you，Build a personal brand for yourself。for example，The designer mentioned above，Because of work, you must contact the program，Program grammar，Combine the two capabilities later，Become a teaching subject for blogging。 Use "resources" at work，Build a personal "brand"，And "blog" has become one of the means to build a personal brand，Continuous long-term operation，The "corporate image" of the person "you"，Will become a great weapon for future success。 Code of five young people become slash、Multi-professional "resources integration" Many people think that the ability to，The definition of a slash is to do many jobs at the same time，Use different majors to generate more income。in fact，The value of slash is not just high income，As the "slash" ability continues to increase，Multiple majors will gradually "integrate" together，In order to maximize the value of the "slash"。 Like most entrepreneurs，Integration of resources，Allow individuals to use resources more systematically，Instead of just spending time in exchange for money。 Through the above 5 methods，Find the area where you work hard，And by developing more diverse professions，You can also be the slash youth in the population，Create more possibilities for yourself。
The supervisor is looking at the resumes of social freshmen，When recruiting talents，I will definitely see what part-time experience or expertise this person has，Although these indicators have certain reference value，To recruit talents but not completely reliable。Is it，More part-time experience or good communication skills，Can it represent that he is a talent? Supervisors，wake up，And otherwise! Fresh graduates，I'm often eager to find a job that meets my expectations，Therefore, they all use the "18 martial arts" to highlight their life experience and value，But think calmly，But when recruiting talents，Fresh graduate，Deducted meals in the past four years、Time to sleep and read，How much energy can you do as many part-time jobs? How does he act as the master of his time，Years to spend four years in college it? Why reflect on these issues are important? We start with a very red Speaking of vocabulary - slash youth。 Recruit talent，He has 10 identities，Is the "slash youth"? Or in the "find yourself"? Last year (2017) to start，"Slash youth" has become a very popular vocabulary，"Slash" (/，Slash) concept，It is "New York Times" columnist Marcy. Ai Bohe proposed in his book "One Person/Multiple Careers"，詞意可簡單解釋為「擁有多項專業身分的人」。 在經濟不景氣的大時空背景下，不只產業想盡辦法因應挑戰，年輕人也希望自己的職涯規劃經得起環境考驗，因此當「斜槓青年」出現時，許多年輕人都立志以此作為自己新的人生標竿，期待自己將來在社會上能多幾個撇（/），證明自己是有多項價值的人才，不會淪為被淘汰的那一位。 however，因為有這樣的心志，許多人都忘了「專業需要長時間培養」，結果，很多學生在大學四年間忙著兼職，可能為自己累積了10種身分，I think this can increase the number of slashes on the resume，Make your experience look more beautiful，And earn a little tuition by the way、living expenses，Feel great、Very independent。 But... after finishing a part-time job，If you ask him "What have you learned?"，10About 6-7 people can say："I learned how to get along with people，這些時間下來我的溝通技巧增進了不少！還認識了更多朋友，A little business contacts! "What? Come on! ... that his professional capacity? His passion for it? in fact，他對未來可能還很迷惘，Only through part-time "find yourself"! How to recruit talent encountered "slash"? If a part-time to every last learn the most are 'communication skills、經營人脈」，那麼對斜槓青年真是天大的誤會！並不是說「溝通技巧、經營人脈」不重要，招募人才時，他在最該好好學習、提升專業能力的歲月裡，做了他次等重要的事情，或者說，Those things in the future to worry too late! As with the above meaning of the word "slash youth," explained，它的意思是「擁有多項『專業』身分的人」，而不是「擁有多項『兼職經歷』或『興趣專長』」，這個「專業」，至少要是通達在該領域的基本知識「之上」，而且有人願意買單欣賞，There are even experts in the field acknowledge that you really have a professional! and so，「兼職多≠斜槓青年」。兼職多，往往只是急於滿足自己內在志氣的虛榮心，搞錯重點還可能沒發現，自己可能是更受不了金錢的誘惑。到頭來，只是增加幾項表面能力，專業上並沒有太多認知深度的增加。 所以招募人才時，Pick fresh look at the people in the end what? Young people just graduated，最重要的是看他「如何管理時間？如何運用時間？」大學四年可以做的事情很多，努力讀書提升專業能力和成績固然很重要，卻不是要學生都當書呆子。除了成績，還可以看看新鮮人在校園時做過哪些有價值的事情。E.g，擔任班級、學會或是社團幹部，There have been no real contribution? Whether these affect his professional? Or for his professional has a plus? Other，兼職也不全然代表他就是一個迷惘的人。雖然上述說兼職並不代表一個人很有能力，但如果他不是上述那種「搞錯重點的人」，兼職經驗有實際的價值貢獻，能對他所追求的專業目標有幫助，有抓到時間安排的平衡點，甚至有該專業領域的人為他背書，Then，這樣的兼職就不至於被否認，還可以為他所嚮往的專業領域加分。 主管在面試新鮮人招募人才時，要從對方的言談裡了解到： 1、How did he make himself master of time? 2、 他如何在課業、活動、part time、家庭和基本生活中取得平衡點？ 3、 Does he have a certain degree (or deeper) Cognitive observed in this field of expertise? 4、 他會不會是「還在找自己」，一心只想快點幫自己多加幾撇（／）的迷惘青年？